170. Follow the flawed

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Hello, darling heart, and welcome to this episode of the Drink Less Live Better podcast.

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This is the podcast that helps you to see that drinking less doesn't need to be stressful, lonely, or boring.

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I'm your host, Sarah Williamson, and I decided to have a year alcohol free as a little life experiment and haven't looked back.

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I share resources, wisdom, insights, and glimmers of hope and joy. I hope you enjoy this episode. Let's get straight to it. Follow the flawed.

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Now before we begin, I use the word flawed lightly here. I possibly mean imperfect. I probably mean normal.

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And by normal, I mean every single shade of different. Okay.

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I'm glad we've established that, and as we know for sure, I love a bit of nuance.

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Flawed individuals play a crucial role in our societies and communities, offering valuable lessons and contributions that often go unrecognized.

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Their imperfections, far from being drawbacks or negatives, can be deep wells of insight, creativity, and growth for both

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themselves and, of course, for other people around them.

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Here are my 10 observations about why flawed people are so important and what we can learn from them. Number 1, authenticity and relatability.

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Flawed individuals often exhibit an unfiltered authenticity that resonates deeply with others.

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By embracing their imperfections, they create spaces where others feel comfortable being themselves.

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This genuine approach to life encourages honesty and vulnerability, meaning deeper connections and, of course, therefore, deeper relationships.

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We can learn from flawed people that it's okay to be imperfect.

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Their example teaches us to accept ourselves as we are, a fabulous cornerstone for personal growth and self acceptance. Number 2. Resilience and adaptability.

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Those who grapple with their flaws often develop remarkable resilience.

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They learn to navigate challenges, adapt to setbacks, and persevere in the face of adversity.

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This resilience is a valuable trait in an ever changing world.

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From flawed individuals, we can learn the art of bouncing back or bouncing forward.

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Their experiences teach us that failure and setbacks are not end points, but perhaps opportunities for growth and reinvention. Go on. Ask me how I know this. Number 3, empathy and compassion.

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People who acknowledge their own flaws tend to be more empathetic towards others.

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Having experienced their own struggles, they often are more understanding and supportive of those facing similar challenges.

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We can learn from flawed individuals how to cultivate deeper empathy and compassion.

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Their perspective helps us to understand that everyone is fighting their own battles, and this encourages, hopefully, a more kind and understanding society. Yes, please, to this. Number 4, innovation and creativity. Flaws can be catalysts for innovation.

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Those who recognize their limitations often find creative ways to overcome them, leading to novel solutions and approaches.

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Some of history's greatest inventors and artists were driven by their perceived flaws or limitations.

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From flawed people, we can learn to think outside the box and approach problems from unique angles.

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These experiences show us that constraints can fuel creativity rather than stifle it.

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Number 5, continuous growth and self improvement.

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Individuals, aware of their flaws, are often on a constant journey of self improvement or discovery.

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This commitment to growth can be inspiring and motivational for other people watching it.

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We can learn from flawed people the importance of lifelong learning. We are never done, never finished. Number 6, humility and open mindedness.

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Recognizing one's flaws fosters a level of humility, an essential quality for personal and professional success.

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Flawed individuals are often more open to feedback and new ideas as they understand that, of course, they don't have all the answers.

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From flawed people, we can learn the value of humility and open mindedness.

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Their approach teaches us to listen more, judge less.

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Number 7, realistic expectations and self compassion.

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Flawed individuals often develop a more realistic view of human nature.

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This perspective can lead to setting more achievable goals and practicing self compassion when things don't work out.

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We can learn from flawed people how to balance ambition with realism and treat ourselves with kindness. Courage and vulnerability is number 8.

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It takes courage to be aware of, acknowledge, and address one's flaws.

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Those who do so often exhibit exhibit bravery in other areas of life as well.

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They're more likely to take risks, speak up against injustice, and stand by their convictions. Yes, yes, and yes.

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Take a risk, speak up, and stand up. Be prepared to be counted.

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From flawed individuals, we learn the power of courage and vulnerability.

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Their example shows us that true strength often lies in facing our weaknesses.

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Number 9, diverse perspectives and inclusive thinking.

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Flawed people often bring unique perspectives to the table.

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Their experiences shape their world views in ways that can challenge conventional thinking and promote more inclusive and diverse approaches to problem solving. Number 10. Forgiveness and second chances.

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Those who acknowledge their own flaws are often more willing to forgive others and believe in second chances.

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From flawed people, we learn the transformative power of forgiveness and the importance of giving others and ourselves the

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opportunity to learn and grow from mistakes.

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Flawed individuals are not just important in society, they are essential.

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Their experiences, struggles, and triumphs offer invaluable lessons in resilience, empathy, creativity, and personal growth.

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By embracing our flaws and learning from others, we create a more authentic, compassionate, and innovative world.

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It's through our imperfections that we connect most deeply with 1 another and find the motivation to continually improve ourselves and our communities. Did I say flawed? Oh sorry I meant flawless. How totally flawless we are. Perfect in our imperfection.

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Thank you for listening in today and, PSI believe in you.